Rules of gay dating
Queer men are varying shades of the rainbow." —Chris, 25 "I went from a 225-pound fat boy to a 145-pound athletic guy.As I lost more weight and gained muscle mass, I began to notice a change in my looks.
It's like you are a mistress but aren't since you both are single.
When you are a gay man in your twenties, dating can be an all-around horrible experience.
Buzz Feed reached out to some of those gay twentysomethings to tell us some of their difficulties when trying to date.
You can be having a great conversation with a guy online, then, at the slightest suspicion that you are a total queen, you are ghosted. We just need to learn that some guys really are into Britney Spears while others really do love monster trucks, but that doesn't define what they can bring to dating or a relationship." —Jeremy, 22 "The biggest struggle of dating is the internal battle one undergoes when deciding if he wants an open, polyamorous, or monogamous relationship.
I've been in all three relationships and neither was perfect, but all provided wonderful learning and growth opportunities.